One unhappy and troubled child takes up most of the available attention and energy in the family.
You can no longer see with any clarity what is going on for that child; the tangled web has become knotted and dense. You suspect certain causes and reasons but the whole issue has become inflamed and tricky to talk about.
You no longer actually see your child; only their unhappiness and despair. You only see the symptoms of that unhappiness, such as anxiety, self harming,OCD, ticks, anger outbursts, isolation and perhaps disordered eating.
If you can identify with any of the above, you are definitely in the right place
I want you to know that you are not alone, and that blaming yourself and feeling guilty won’t help your family.
I come across this all the time in my work with families and I’ve been there myself too. As parents we often struggle to help our children and teenagers because we hurt for them.
Being the parent of an unhappy child can cause chronic stress and the saying that you are only as happy as your unhappiest child is only too true.
There is no escaping the pain and nothing really blocks knowing that your child is deeply unhappy.
But I have a solution for you!
We’ve seen a significant improvement in our daughters behaviour, attitude and engagement with her friends & family and I can 100% recommend this process to other parents.
Our daughter engaged completely, now feels in control of herself and has tools to help her manage. We all have better relationships and are happier and more positive. We can now do the simple things together as a family like sharing meals and watching tv. I think the Process is brilliant and definitely worth the investment. In fact you’ve been brilliant for us, and I’d be happy to stand up and shout about it!!!:):)”
Father, Teacher, Steeple Bumpstead
Each family will have a unique tailored process designed to meet their needs and family situation, resulting in sustained and lasting change.
Your child will transform the emotional baggage that is weighing so heavily on them and you will be freed from the constant firefighting, getting your child and your peace of mind back.
This work is not about removing symptoms, its about going to the root of the symptoms and removing them. This means that the results are ‘forever’ results
Your child will feel good in their own skin and have their old energy and vitality back. In fact they will be more than their old selves; they will be empowered and feel stronger. They’ll have tools and skills to find their wings and fly.
The work is a 3-way process between you, your child and myself. You will never be excluded, which does happen in some other therapeutic processes
You will be able to measure progress, be encouraged to communicate about it and you will see real and tangible results quickly.
You will notice a positive change in your child even after the very first session.
Would you like to know more?
Apply for a no obligation WayForward Consultation and get all your questions answered. It’s completely free of charge. I will find out all I need to offer you the right solution for your circumstances. I’ll give you my best recommendations for moving forward from where you are right now so you can all start feeling happy again.
Unique to you
There is no ‘one-size-fits-all’ to the kind of problems families struggle with. The work will be personalised to you, your family and your individual needs.
We will work together so that the process meet the needs of all the moving parts in your family and your circumstances.
Inger seemed to unravel some of the problems that were deep rooted and I now have a happier child entering her teenage years. I would certainly recommend Inger’s work. Mother, Journalist, Dunmow
I don’t work with everyone
I can only work with a limited number of one-to-one clients to be able to give you the level of support you need. To make sure this is the right solution for you, I invite you to a 60 minute no obligation WayForward Consultation.
On the call we’ll get to chat and see if we’re a good fit.
If at the end of the consultation, I feel my services are not a good fit for you then I’ll let you know. And if I feel I can help, I’ll let you know how.
The purpose of this valuable call is to help you get clarity about what help I can offer and how I work and for me to understand your family dynamic and where things have gone awry.
“Inger recently delivered a fantastic 10 week workshop to students in Yr 10 and 11. The course was professionally delivered and the high quality content more than supported the very complex needs of the group. Each individual students was given practical and effective skills to help them manage their exam preparation and transition from GCSE’s into Sixth Form/College. All the students who completed the course reported marked changes in their stress levels and well as instant access to stress reductions strategies.
I would have no reservations in recommending Inger for any other group work or individual interventions, she is a consummate professional who is able to work really effectively with young people and adults.” Beth Robertson Dip Couns Post Dip Cert (Children and Young People) Registered Member of MBACP (Accred)
I offer the following packages:
Parenting SOS Package
Whole Family Support Package
Exam Ready in 3 Weeks
Pathway Process for Children and Teenagers
“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way” is the opening line of ‘Anna Karenina’ by Tolstoy and you can rest assured that whichever package you choose it will be tailored to suit your family’s unique needs.
And when you do decide to go ahead you will be totally covered by my Wise Investment Guarantee.
Wise Investment Guarantee
If at the end of our first month working together your child has attended all the sessions and taken all the steps s/he committed to, and you are not 100% satisfied, I guarantee to give you a full refund of any payments made up to that point.
I offer this level of guarantee because I am 100% committed to my work and my reputation, I want you to feel equally confident that you are investing your time and money wisely.
If you have tried other services such as counselling or CAHMS you will be surprised at the real and tangible results you can get in a short time. Innovative and empowering energy psychology tools will get to the heart of the unhappiness and trouble without having to re-live the ‘story’.
This is a 60 minute telephone or Skype chat. There’s no cost and no obligation.
You have nothing to lose but your stress and worry.
Below are 3 case studies to help you understand more of the process and the work that I do.
Rosie on body image
“For as long as I remember Rose has been neurotic about her appearance. I do feel guilty that she might have copied me; certainly about diets. I am always on and off diets but I don’t hate myself or my body….