Let Inger Command
Your Next Stage
Inger Madsen is the founder of the Empowered Parenting Framework. An Energy Psychology Practitioner, emotional literacy educator, and speaker with over 20 years of experience supporting families navigating the wild ride of adolescence.
Her specialty? Helping parents transform conflict, anxiety, and generational patterns into calm, connection, and emotional resilience.
Emotions Education | Family Dynamics | Parenting Teens
Inger is the founder and lead practitioner of Empowered Parenting Framework rooted in energy psychology, emotional education, and trauma-informed practice. Her work sits at the intersection of neuroscience, behaviour, and embodied wisdom.
She teaches real-world tools for regulating the nervous system, responding (not reacting) in emotionally charged moments, and stepping into grounded, compassionate leadership at home.
Whether on stage or in session, Inger brings warmth, wit, and soul-deep clarity. Her talks resonate powerfully with parents in the thick of it — the ones balancing work, midlife, and the emotional demands of teenagers who don’t come with a manual.
She offers parents permission to feel it all, while giving them the practical tools to lead with emotional intelligence, even when their teen is melting down and they haven’t had a moment’s peace.
Talk topics and titles
Lead the change: parenting through the wild ride of adolescence
You have more power than you think — not to control your child, but to change the dynamic.
This keynote is a rallying cry for brave, conscious parenting. Inger Madsen invites you behind the scenes of real family transformation — where chaos becomes clarity and generational patterns get interrupted, not repeated. She explores how setting embodied, non-negotiable boundaries (without the shouting), doing your own inner work, and mastering the art of rupture and repair can transform the emotional legacy you leave behind.
It’s funny, honest, and deeply hopeful. Because your teen doesn’t need you to control them. They need you to lead.
From conflict to connection: the 3-step reset for stressed-out parents
When parenting teens starts to feel like walking through a minefield of moods, meltdowns, and muttered obscenities — it’s time to stop treading on eggshells and start leading differently. In this refreshingly honest, practical and hopeful talk, Inger Madsen shares the 3 essential shifts every parent must make to move from emotional reactivity to calm, strategic leadership.
You’ll learn how to regulate your own stress (because that’s where it all starts), decode what your teen’s behaviour is really about, and set boundaries with clarity and compassion — no shouting required. It’s a parenting reset with impact. Because connection isn’t found in controlling your child. It’s found in changing yourself.
How to be the parent your anxious child actually needs
You’ve tried soothing, reasoning, tough love, endless reassurance — and nothing’s worked. Your child is still stuck, spiralling in fear, and you’re left walking on eggshells, drained by the daily battles. In this compassionate and empowering talk, Inger Madsen shares the game-changing truth most parents never hear: your child’s anxiety isn’t the problem to fix — your leadership is.
You’ll learn how to regulate your own nervous system, understand what anxiety actually is (and isn’t), and guide your child through their big emotions with calm confidence. This is not about managing symptoms. It’s about transforming the emotional dynamic between you and your child. Because what anxious teens really need is a parent who can hold the storm without becoming it.
Feelings aren’t the problem – they’re the portal
How emotions education transforms parenting, regulates nervous systems, and builds resilient families
Most parents were never taught the purpose of emotions — only how to hide, suppress, or apologise for having them. But emotional suppression isn’t strength. It’s stress in disguise.
In this powerful, practical talk, Inger reframes emotions as a vital language — the way our body communicates its needs, values, and boundaries. Parents will learn why decoding emotions is the most important skill they can model for their children, how the brain processes feelings under stress, and how emotional literacy helps families stay connected during conflict.
Expect neuroscience made simple, practical tools for co-regulation, and real-life examples from Inger’s therapy practice. Because raising emotionally intelligent kids starts with us — and feelings, when understood, become our greatest parenting allies.
Boundaries that build connection: how to hold the line without losing the relationship
For parents of adolescents who want to stop the battles and build real trust
Boundaries aren’t about punishment or power. They’re about safety, structure, and deep emotional clarity — especially during adolescence, when your teen’s brain is being rewired for independence. In this talk, Inger shares why boundaries are not just necessary, but deeply loving. You’ll learn how to set limits that protect connection, not destroy it — and how to stay steady when your teen pushes back. Discover the neuroscience of adolescent development, the emotional need for consistency, and how to become the calm, clear leader your teen needs. This isn’t about control. It’s about creating a home where everyone can breathe, trust, grow, and feel safe.
Inger is an engaging speaker who delivers top quality content and can command a stage.
“She spoke at our ‘Mental Health and Well Being’ Event keeping audience involvement throughout with her dazzling tour de force of the evolution of anxiety.
Inger delivers sell out workshops several times a year on parenting anxious, stressed and angry teens and the response has been overwhelmingly positive. I would not hesitate to recommend her as a Speaker and workshop leader.”
Inger is an incredibly charismatic speaker who was able to draw the audience in immediately with her humour, compassion and authenticity.
“Inger Madsen was both our Keynote Speaker at our ‘Navigating The Teenage Years’ evening for parents at the start of the evening, delivering a 25 minute talk on Parent Power to over 180 parents and also led three group workshops over the course of the evening.
Inger is an incredibly charismatic speaker who was able to draw the audience in immediately with her humour, compassion and authenticity.
Her approach is down to earth and inclusive. She gives excellent solution focused methods to support parents in supporting their children.
Her small group sessions were very well attended and the feedback from parents was excellent. Parents felt seen, heard and understood. They left the session feeling both relieved and empowered to be able to put in place a new way of communicating with their teenager.
Inger has been working with our school for many years and her work with students and parents has been invaluable.
As a school we can work with our young people and help make a difference but the real change happens when parents are part of the process too. Inger makes this happen!“
Booking at inger@ingermadsen.com | 01799 500 690
Meet Inger Madsen
Inger Madsen is a certified and accredited advanced EFT practitioner, a matrix re-imprinting practitioner and mum of three. With surgeon-level laser focus, she has the ability to discern the root cause of unhappiness in the family so that change can happen, fast, saving you and your children tens of years and tens of thousands in therapy.
Inger helps parents lead their family through the emotional upheaval and defiance of adolescence.
In her private practice Inger has worked on the coalface of teenage rebellion for two decades. She has delivered workshops for thousands of parents and has collaborated with schools throughout Essex and Cambridgeshire.
Through working with Inger parents have finally processed decades-old emotions that were getting in the way of being a present parent for the child in front of them. They’ve worked out how to set healthy, consistent boundaries with authority and ease, creating the safe space for their family to thrive.