“Each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” Tolstoy

 My work with parents

Is this you?

You are horrified to realise you’ve become your own parent and those things you swore you’d never say are just popping out of your mouth like big, ugly, green frogs.

Or perhaps you try hard not to be triggered by their anxiety, only to feel that there must be some perverse God of Vengeance out there making you suffer your own childhood insecurities all over again through your child.

You sense your partner running out of patience with you and your child growing ever more distant and reluctant to spend time with you.

You suffer sleepless nights of shame for losing your temper, guilt for being too strict and feeling a total failure as a parent.

If you can identify with any of the above, read on:

Do you or your partner suck the fun out of everything by being stressed and anxious or strict and obsessed?

As a parent, I’d argue it’s one of the worst places to be.  So I want you to go easy on yourself just for a moment.

Because you aren’t the only one and you’re not alone in feeling like this.

I have yet to meet a parent who isn’t doing their very best for their child.  And I have yet to meet a parent who is perfect.

Your awareness of your part in the problem means you can get there.  

And I have a solution for you!

It was fantastic to find Inger at a time when my relationship with my 15 year old anxious teenager had hit an all-time low. 

The “Parenting SOS Package” sessions were invaluable. Inger has a friendly manner and is easy to talk to. I found her suggestions and ways of looking at things really helpful, combined with the EFT tapping, which is easy to incorporate into your everyday life.  I kept a post-it note of some of her suggestions by my bed-side, just to refresh myself each day.

I had become overwhelmed with all the conflict at home but Inger helped me to find the tools and strategies to work through it all.

I would definitely recommend Inger to any families going through challenging times.

C.S., Mum and PR consultant, Saffron Walden

Imagine the fantastically freeing feeling of knowing exactly how to change your responses and behaviours in order to get the best from your child? 

Fast forward to a peaceful home life with happy and relaxed children and the delightful possibility of conversations that don’t end in arguments and escalate to slamming doors.

What if you could grow yourself into the calm and resourceful parent you always aspired to be?


The work

The work is a unique and bespoke solution to feelings of parental inadequacy, helplessness and guilt.

Realising that your own behaviours and actions can cause some of the problems in the family means you are already half-way to family bliss. You will be amazed at how changing your own dance steps will change the whole family dance and dynamic.

Sometimes our work is about getting better at boundaries and communicating those in a clear and calm way. Other times it’s about you letting go of outdated beliefs. 

The work will be economical, precise and give maximum results. You will benefit from my dedicated skill, expertise and experience in helping parents transform their parenting pain into calm, empowered and peaceful parenting.

I came to Inger initially about my son’s anxiety but soon realised that I needed help as my own stress and anxiety levels were off the charts.

Through various sessions we tackled my unresolved childhood issues which had led to my current state.

I now feel that life doesn’t control me but that I control my life and I no longer have the fear and terror of living that I used to have especially regarding money issues.

I am now a much more calm and relaxed individual who is able to take proactive decisions rather than being reactive to circumstances.

I am looking forward to a brighter future and enjoying life at the moment.

M.H., Chelmsford, Dad and Business Analyst

Would you like to know more?

Apply for a no obligation WayForward Consultation and get all your questions answered.

It’s completely free of charge. I will find out all I need in order to offer you the right solution for your circumstances. I’ll give you my best recommendations for moving forward so your family can start feeling happy again. 

Unique to you

There is no ‘one-size-fits-all’ to the kind of problems families struggle with. The work will be personalised to your individual needs and circumstances and you can rest assured that whichever package you choose will be tailored to suit your needs.

I first started working with Inger during a particularly anxious time in my life. With her amazing gifts I was able to identify and change the hardwired conditioning that caused the anxiety.

I have continued to work through relationship difficulties experiencing how the shifts within myself created healthier connections with my husband and daughter and immediate family members.

Those difficulties seemed so stuck and impossible to change but by changing myself I have changed my relationships as if by magic.

D.M.Mum and Health Centre Manager, Saffron Walden

I don’t work with everyone

I can only work with a limited number of one-to-one clients to be able to give you the level of support you need. To make sure this is the right solution for you, I invite you to a 60 minute no obligation WayForward Consultation.

On the call we’ll get to chat and see if we’re a good fit.

If at the end of the consultation, I feel my services are not a good fit for you then I’ll let you know. And if I feel I can help, I’ll let you know how.

The purpose of this valuable call is to help you get clarity about what I offer, how I work and for me to understand you and your family dynamic and where things have gone awry.

What Next?

If you have tried other services you will be surprised at the real and tangible results you can get in a short time. Innovative and empowering energy psychology tools will get to the heart of the unhappiness and trouble without having to re-live the ‘story’.

The WayForward Consultation is a 60 minute telephone or Zoom chat.

There’s no cost and no obligation.

You have nothing to lose but your stress and worry.

Inger you have a genuinely caring personality that comes across in all your sessions and for that you deserve every success and my greatest respect.

LD, Mum and Administrator, Ashdon

I went to see Inger because I was increasingly behaving in an irrational and harsh manner to my nearest and dearest which was distressing for the whole family. I had several ‘light bulb moments’ which I use as my go-to when life presents me with situations that would’ve previously floored me.

Inger has an emotional intelligence that I could only wish for and shows empathy, strength of opinion and absolute honesty in equal measure. I am so lucky to have encountered her.

PB, Dad & Managing Director, Chelmsford