Calling all parents who understand they are raising the future
You know how you parent now impacts the adults your children become.
You look around and are horrified by the role models your children are influenced by.
You want them to have better and grow into kind, aware, compassionate individuals.
Introducing…
A 7 week online course for parents ready to break cycles, reclaim calm,
and raise emotionally resilient children.
starting October 2025
The relationship between parent and child is dynamic and reciprocal.
We help them navigate the world and they teach us how to be the best parents we can be.
Sometimes we teach, sometimes we learn.
Always, as parents, we have to lead.
But how?
Just as you figure it out adolescence comes along.
You feel the gut-wrenching pain of watching your teenager struggle with their emotions and their place in the world.
Are they bullied but not opening up to you?
Your attempts to help end in screaming matches, meltdowns and slammed doors and your strategy of being their best friend isn’t working anymore.
They push your buttons & you cry.
You realise that your reactions escalate things but, still and again, you lose your temper.
There are monumental meltdowns
Your find yourself mired in guilt one minute and shaming and blaming the next or running the never-ending nag loop.
school refusal
social media addiction
arguments
keeping secrets
perhaps involved in something dangerous or even illegal
You’re not alone. I have been there too. It’s hard.
In fact parenting is the hardest and most relentless thing you will ever do.
And unlike other hard things – like learning a new language or climbing Everest – we are expected to do it with zero training.
If you feel powerless to help your child
Your leadership skills need an upgrade.
I have designed this course to take you from helpless, overwhelmed and stressed to the calm, empowered leader of your family.
Would you like to…
Stop treading on eggshells and instead learn how to avoid escalating situations and get the dishwasher emptied?
Become the guide your teenager needs in order to navigate all the difficult feelings that come with adolescence and trust them to make good choices in school and friendships?
Fully understand that being a teenager means testing the boundaries to their very limit and become the parent who can set boundaries and is willing to be unpopular?
In Parent like a Leader you will
Learn the surprising truth about trauma and emotions that will serve you and your children forever.
Once and for all ditch your unnecessary guilt which is only ever getting in the way of your parenting so that you can be fully present to your child.
Learn to trust your own inner instincts and authority as a parent.
Untangle the unhelpful patterns that were passed down to you so you can break the cycle of generational trauma and create a better world.
All of that is available for you inside Parent Like a Leader
Meet Inger Madsen
Inger Madsen is a certified and accredited advanced EFT practitioner, a matrix re-imprinting practitioner and mum of three. With surgeon-level laser focus, she has the ability to discern the root cause of unhappiness in the family so that change can happen, fast, saving you and your children tens of years and tens of thousands in therapy.
Inger helps parents lead their family through the emotional upheaval and defiance of adolescence.
In her private practice Inger has worked on the coalface of teenage rebellion for two decades. She has delivered workshops for thousands of parents and has collaborated with schools throughout Essex and Cambridgeshire.
Through working with Inger parents have finally processed decades-old emotions that were getting in the way of being a present parent for the child in front of them. They’ve worked out how to set healthy, consistent boundaries with authority and ease, creating the safe space for their family to thrive.
Our family has come out stronger
“Working with Inger has truly changed everything. Our family has come out stronger, more connected, and ready to face the future with hope and confidence. I feel free—free from old pain, free from anxiety, and free to live the life I was always meant to live. And for that, I will always be grateful.”
We’re able to enjoy family time without fear of conflict
“Family life was exhausting before we worked with Inger. I dreaded weekends and couldn’t handle Louis’s meltdowns. Inger taught us how to manage our emotions, which made a huge difference. Louis can calm himself now, and we’re able to enjoy family time without fear of conflict. The change in our home is remarkable.”
Everyone deserves the opportunity for this level of healing
“Inger’s work has not only changed our family life, but it has also inspired my daughter to help others. She want to start a charity called the Inger Foundation, specifically for teenagers who can’t afford to see her. She feels strongly that everyone deserves the opportunity for this level of healing and transformation and I am so happy to help her set it up.”
Over seven weeks together, you’ll learn my
7 Pillars of Empowered Parenting™:
Week One:
Emotions Education
Understand your emotional wiring and change how you respond in the heat of the moment.
You can’t support your teen through big emotions if you’re afraid of your own. This week, we lay the foundation by exploring how emotions work, why they matter, and how to shift your fear-based reactions into calm, connected leadership.
- Learn the purpose of emotions
- Spot and soothe your triggers
- Build emotional literacy — for you and your child
Week Two:
Resourcing You First
Fill your own tank because burnout isn’t leadership.
If you’re depleted, you can’t co-regulate, set boundaries, or stay calm. This week helps you dismantle the myth of parental self-sacrifice and reclaim your right to be resourced.
- Identify your needs and meet them (without guilt)
- Rebuild your nervous system capacity
- Discover how your calm becomes your child’s safety
Week Three:
Healing Generational Trauma
You’re not failing. You’re repeating. But you can choose differently.
This is the week you interrupt the patterns that were passed down to you. We’ll uncover the emotional imprints shaping your reactions and begin to rewire them.
- Name the unconscious scripts you’re carrying
- Release shame and inherited trauma
- Choose the legacy you want to leave
Week Four:
The Wild Ride of Adolescence
Your teen’s chaos doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it means they’re growing.
Here we decode what’s happening in the adolescent brain, why your teen pulls away (or lashes out), and how to stay connected without controlling.
- Learn the neuroscience of adolescence
- Shift from manager to mentor
- Hold steady through their big emotions
Week Five:
Rupture and Repair
You don’t need to get it right all the time, just know how to come back.
This is where we stop the guilt spiral. You’ll learn how to reconnect after conflict, model accountability, and deepen your bond — even after hard moments.
- Reframe conflict as a connection opportunity
- Apologise without losing authority
- Teach your child how to repair relationships for life
Week Six:
Boundaries That Build Trust
Boundaries aren’t punishments, they’re clarity.
This week is all about loving limits. You’ll learn to set firm, values-led boundaries that feel safe, not scary. And yes, your teen will push back. That’s part of the process.
- Define your boundaries and stick to them
- Say no with love — and mean it
- Build a home where respect and warmth coexist
Week Seven:
Supporting the Growth of Self-Worth
Help your child grow from the inside out, with confidence that lasts.
We close the course by shifting from outcome-focused parenting to process-focused leadership. You’ll learn to nurture your child’s intrinsic motivation and create space for their full, messy, wonderful self to grow.
- Let go of praise and pressure — and shift to process and purpose
- Support your teen to trust their instincts and navigate failure
- Understand the subtle ways perfectionism, criticism, or “good parenting” can backfire
- Learn how your own inner critic may be shaping theirs — and how to interrupt the pattern
- Create a family culture where self-worth isn’t earned — it’s recognised and remembered. Because your child doesn’t need to be fixed. They need to feel seen, supported, and strong enough to rise.
Here’s how it will work:
- You join from the comfort of your own home, in your slippers if you so desire with no need to arrange child care and all the sessions recorded so you can watch them back on your own time.
- The teaching modules will be delivered to your inbox on a Friday morning so that you have over a week to watch, integrate and put things into practice.
- We meet the following week for our 90 minute workshop where you bring me questions that are unique and specific to you and where your family is at.
- This weekly rhythm of a teaching module followed by a live workshop means you can stay in momentum and have time in between to implement and integrate.
- The workshop element brings the benefit of coming together in a small supportive group which elevates the power and energy and allows us to the learn from each other and share the experience of parenting.
- We have a private Facebook group where you can share, ask questions, encourage each other and ask for support in between the sessions which means we’ve got your back and you are not alone.
- You will be provided with all the necessary material to help you implement what I teach so that you can apply and see results immediately in your family’s happiness.
- You will be taught powerful stress reliefs techniques to support you in between our sessions that you can continue to use to you and your family’s benefit forever.
How will it feel to know exactly how to change your responses and behaviours in order to get the best from your child?
To have a peaceful home life with happy and relaxed children and the delightful possibility of conversations that don’t end in arguments and escalate to slamming doors
What if through this course you could grow yourself into the calm and resourceful parent you always aspired to be?
This course is for…
Parents who have the ability to self-reflect and the courage to do the work required for their children.
Cycle breakers who are ready to be the ones who say this stops with me.
Parents who care about the future of our world and want to be able to look back and know they did their best.
You care about doing a good job and being good parents.
You are thirsty for knowledge on how to change the current unhappy family dynamic and you are willing to look at whatever comes up.
You are open hearted and brave.
This course is not for
Those who won’t own their own shortcomings and take responsibility for their part in the current family unhappiness.
Parents who expect their child to do the work when they themselves won’t.
Parents who want to continue blaming, shaming and playing victims.
If you know your role as a parent is to raise the future it’s time to get the training you need to parent like a leader
FAQ’s
What are the dates for Parent like a Leader?
The teaching modules will land in your inbox Saturday mornings: 4/10/25, 11/10/25, 18/10/25 (Half term break) 1/11/25, 8/11/25, 15/11/25 and 22/11/25
When will I have time to watch the teaching videos?
The teaching module will be sent to you a minimum of 7 days before the Live online group session takes place.
To make the most of the course make sure you watch it ASAP after you receive it so that you have time to implement the teachings, observe what happens and bring questions to the live session.
Is there homework?
Yes. In order to get the most out of this course and transform your family life you are expected to implement what you learn in between sessions to imbed, embody and integrate so you can grow your own inner Leader.
I don’t like group work – it makes me feel uncomfortable – do I have to partake?
The group will be a maximum of 12 people and we will take time getting to know each other and build up trust and rapport.
In addition everybody will sign a confidentiality agreement and contract upon joining so you can rest assured that you’re safe.
If you still don’t feel comfortable partaking in the group work you can watch the recording instead and send in your questions in advance so I can address them.
If it’s not for me can I have a refund?
As this is an online & recorded course there are no refunds offered.
What happens if I can’t make the Live session?
I will send the recording out 24-48 hours later so you can watch and catch up.
I’m on holiday for some of the course – can I still attend?
Both the teaching element and the group work is recorded. The teaching module will be in Member Vault and you will have access for it’s lifetime. The teaching modules will arrive in your inbox 24-48 hours after we finish.
How much time do I need to set aside to do the homework?
I suggest as much as you possibly can during the 12 weeks but that said 5 minutes can make all the difference and I will explain during the course how to be efficient with your homework.
My husband/partner/wife wants to do this with me – can we both join on the calls?
Yes but to get the most out of this course you have to be open and honest about all your family relationships and feelings. If you feel you can do that with your partner present you are both welcome as long as you join from one screen.
Still have questions?
The best money I’ve ever spent
“One of the most profound changes has been with my parents. Through the work I did with Inger, I’ve healed old wounds and reconnected with them in a way I never thought possible. My dad even said, “It’s the best money I’ve ever spent.” Thanks to Inger, we’ve got our relationship back, and my parents have got all us both back.”
We have the tools to handle our own reactions
“Inger’s sessions have not only helped our daughter, but they’ve helped us as parents. We’ve learned the importance of staying calm during her moments of anxiety and have been given the tools to handle our own reactions better. I recommend therapy for any parent dealing with similar issues — it’s not about ‘fixing’ the child, but about the entire family growing and learning together.”
Our house is now peaceful and I feel empowered as a parent
“Before Inger, our home was full of conflict. Louis’s mood swings were overwhelming, and I felt like I was failing as a mother. Inger’s approach helped us focus on our own reactions, and that changed everything. I’ve learned to stay calm, which helps Louis stay calm too. Our house is now peaceful, and I finally feel empowered as a parent.”
Meet my collaborative partner Luna who likes to join in with the Zoom meetings to offer her embodied playful leadership qualities.
The investment for Parent Like a Leader : Raise the Future is £1397
Earlybird price is just £997
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If you have any questions or issues, or if you’d prefer to pay in full by bank transfer, please email me at inger@ingermadsen.com
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