Calling all parents who understand they are raising the future
You know how you parent now impacts the adults your children become.
You look around and are horrified by the role models your children are influenced by.
You want them to have better and grow into kind, aware, compassionate individuals.
Introducing…
A 7 week module course for parents ready to break cycles, reclaim calm,
and raise emotionally resilient children.
The relationship between parent and child is dynamic and reciprocal.
We help them navigate the world and they teach us how to be the best parents we can be.
Sometimes we teach, sometimes we learn.
Always, as parents, we have to lead.
But how?
Just as you figure it out adolescence comes along.
You feel the gut-wrenching pain of watching your teenager struggle with their emotions and their place in the world.
Are they bullied but not opening up to you?
Your attempts to help end in screaming matches, meltdowns and slammed doors and your strategy of being their best friend isn’t working anymore.
They push your buttons & you cry.
You realise that your reactions escalate things but, still and again, you lose your temper.
There are monumental meltdowns
Your find yourself mired in guilt one minute and shaming and blaming the next or running the never-ending nag loop.
school refusal
social media addiction
arguments
keeping secrets
perhaps involved in something dangerous or even illegal
You’re not alone. I have been there too. It’s hard.
In fact parenting is the hardest and most relentless thing you will ever do.
And unlike other hard things – like learning a new language or climbing Everest – we are expected to do it with zero training.
If you feel powerless to help your child
Your leadership skills need an upgrade.
I have designed this course to take you from helpless, overwhelmed and stressed to the calm, empowered leader of your family.
Would you like to…
Stop treading on eggshells and instead learn how to avoid escalating situations and get the dishwasher emptied?
Become the guide your teenager needs in order to navigate all the difficult feelings that come with adolescence and trust them to make good choices in school and friendships?
Fully understand that being a teenager means testing the boundaries to their very limit and become the parent who can set boundaries and is willing to be unpopular?
In Parent like a Leader you will
Learn the surprising truth about trauma and emotions that will serve you and your children forever.
Once and for all ditch your unnecessary guilt which is only ever getting in the way of your parenting so that you can be fully present to your child.
Learn to trust your own inner instincts and authority as a parent.
Untangle the unhelpful patterns that were passed down to you so you can break the cycle of generational trauma and create a better world.
All of that is available for you inside Parent Like a Leader
Meet Inger Madsen
Inger Madsen is a certified and accredited advanced EFT practitioner, a matrix re-imprinting practitioner and mum of three. With surgeon-level laser focus, she has the ability to discern the root cause of unhappiness in the family so that change can happen, fast, saving you and your children tens of years and tens of thousands in therapy.
Inger helps parents lead their family through the emotional upheaval and defiance of adolescence.
In her private practice Inger has worked on the coalface of teenage rebellion for two decades. She has delivered workshops for thousands of parents and has collaborated with schools throughout Essex and Cambridgeshire.
Through working with Inger parents have finally processed decades-old emotions that were getting in the way of being a present parent for the child in front of them. They’ve worked out how to set healthy, consistent boundaries with authority and ease, creating the safe space for their family to thrive.
I feel less helpless
“I joined Parent Like a Leader because I was struggling to adjust my parenting as my children became teenagers. What had worked before wasn’t working anymore, and it often felt overwhelming. I needed new tools and a different way of thinking.
The course gave me that – especially the final pillar, on supporting self-worth. That part really landed. It helped me realise that I don’t need to be perfect – I just need to be present. That one idea has reduced my anxiety so much.
I found the course structure really helpful, having time to reflect, learn, discuss in the small group, and do the tapping live. It was also powerful hearing from other parents. I think the small group size really made a difference.
Now, I feel less helpless. There’s still a lot of work to do, but I have more clarity and more ways to support my kids, and myself, through this stage of life.”
I’ve rebuilt confidence in my parenting
“Before joining Parent Like a Leader: Raise the Future, our relationship with our daughter had totally broken down and it was affecting the whole family.
The course helped me rebuild confidence in my parenting. I found all Seven Pillars valuable, but the one on boundaries stood out – just knowing “this is what you need to be doing, whatever your adolescent is saying to you” was really helpful.
The live workshops made a big difference too. At first, tapping in front of others felt uncomfortable, but hearing other people speak made it more powerful. Being part of a small group where everyone had time to speak was incredibly supportive.
Now, I’m tapping every day, even five minutes helps me release emotion and stay calm. I’m more conscious of my tone, I walk away when I need to, and I’ve seen changes in my daughter too. Things aren’t perfect, but they’re shifting.
If you want to truly understand what’s happening in adolescence, and avoid reading 10 parenting books that might not help, do this course. It gives you the tools, the structure, and the support to make real change. If I’d done it three years ago, we would have saved ourselves a lot of unhappiness.”
Over seven modules together, you’ll learn my
Empowered Parenting Framework™:
Module One:
Emotions Education
Understand your emotional wiring and change how you respond in the heat of the moment.
You can’t support your teen through big emotions if you’re afraid of your own. This week, we lay the foundation by exploring how emotions work, why they matter, and how to shift your fear-based reactions into calm, connected leadership.
- Learn the purpose of emotions
- Spot and soothe your triggers
- Build emotional literacy — for you and your child
Module Two:
Resourcing You First
Fill your own tank because burnout isn’t leadership.
If you’re depleted, you can’t co-regulate, set boundaries, or stay calm. This week helps you dismantle the myth of parental self-sacrifice and reclaim your right to be resourced.
- Identify your needs and meet them (without guilt)
- Rebuild your nervous system capacity
- Discover how your calm becomes your child’s safety
Module Three:
Healing Generational Trauma
You’re not failing. You’re repeating. But you can choose differently.
This is the week you interrupt the patterns that were passed down to you. We’ll uncover the emotional imprints shaping your reactions and begin to rewire them.
- Name the unconscious scripts you’re carrying
- Release shame and inherited trauma
- Choose the legacy you want to leave
Module Four:
The Wild Ride of Adolescence
Your teen’s chaos doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it means they’re growing.
Here we decode what’s happening in the adolescent brain, why your teen pulls away (or lashes out), and how to stay connected without controlling.
- Learn the neuroscience of adolescence
- Shift from manager to mentor
- Hold steady through their big emotions
Module Five:
Rupture and Repair
You don’t need to get it right all the time, just know how to come back.
This is where we stop the guilt spiral. You’ll learn how to reconnect after conflict, model accountability, and deepen your bond — even after hard moments.
- Reframe conflict as a connection opportunity
- Apologise without losing authority
- Teach your child how to repair relationships for life
Module Six:
Boundaries That Build Trust
Boundaries aren’t punishments, they’re clarity.
This week is all about loving limits. You’ll learn to set firm, values-led boundaries that feel safe, not scary. And yes, your teen will push back. That’s part of the process.
- Define your boundaries and stick to them
- Say no with love — and mean it
- Build a home where respect and warmth coexist
Module Seven:
Supporting the Growth of Self-Worth
Help your child grow from the inside out, with confidence that lasts.
We close the course by shifting from outcome-focused parenting to process-focused leadership. You’ll learn to nurture your child’s intrinsic motivation and create space for their full, messy, wonderful self to grow.
- Let go of praise and pressure — and shift to process and purpose
- Support your teen to trust their instincts and navigate failure
- Understand the subtle ways perfectionism, criticism, or “good parenting” can backfire
- Learn how your own inner critic may be shaping theirs — and how to interrupt the pattern
- Create a family culture where self-worth isn’t earned — it’s recognised and remembered. Because your child doesn’t need to be fixed. They need to feel seen, supported, and strong enough to rise.
Here’s how it will work:
- You watch from the comfort of your own home, in your slippers if you so desire – all the content is recorded so you can watch them anytime, in your own time.
- You have access to the content for 6 months, over which you can join 6 x 90 minute group coaching calls – you bring your questions as you’ve been working through the content.
- You will be provided with all the necessary material to help you implement what I teach so that you can apply and see results immediately in your family’s happiness.
- You will be taught powerful stress reliefs techniques to support you in between our sessions that you can continue to use to you and your family’s benefit forever.
How will it feel to know exactly how to change your responses and behaviours in order to get the best from your child?
To have a peaceful home life with happy and relaxed children and the delightful possibility of conversations that don’t end in arguments and escalate to slamming doors
What if through this course you could grow yourself into the calm and resourceful parent you always aspired to be?
This course is for…
Parents who have the ability to self-reflect and the courage to do the work required for their children.
Cycle breakers who are ready to be the ones who say this stops with me.
Parents who care about the future of our world and want to be able to look back and know they did their best.
You care about doing a good job and being good parents.
You are thirsty for knowledge on how to change the current unhappy family dynamic and you are willing to look at whatever comes up.
You are open hearted and brave.
This course is not for
Those who won’t own their own shortcomings and take responsibility for their part in the current family unhappiness.
Parents who expect their child to do the work when they themselves won’t.
Parents who want to continue blaming, shaming and playing victims.
If you know your role as a parent is to raise the future, it’s time to get the training you need to parent like a leader.
Special Offer – Spring 2026
Before Parent Like a Leader gets a re-brand (visual only – the content won’t be changing) I’m opening it up for one final round at the special
price of £249!
For this you have access to 7 training modules and 6 x 90 minute group calls over 6 months.
There is a maximum of 5 parents in the group calls. You can pay in full or split by 2 x monthly payments.
If you have any questions, drop me an email at inger@ingermadsen.com
A safe space where I could learn
“This course gives you a deeper understanding of your role as a parent, practical tools, and a way to ride the emotional waves of adolescence without losing yourself. It’s been really valuable – I think about it every day.
Inger, your warmth, acceptance and depth of understanding and knowledge really helped me feel I was in a safe space where I could learn and be open with my thoughts and emotions.”
Now I’m focused on being the parent
“I joined Parent Like a Leader: Raise the Future because we’d been dealing with mental illness in my eldest, and as a consequence, my youngest developed major anxiety. I really wanted to learn how to handle it as a parent.
One of the biggest shifts for me has been learning not to take things personally. I realised I was reacting to my child’s behaviour as if it were about me – and when you do that, it stops being about them. Now I’m more focused on being the parent: staying calm, holding the space, and riding the storm.
Being with other parents was incredibly valuable. Even though our situations were different, the fact that we were all parenting teens created a bond – and made me feel less alone.
I’ve also started using tapping. It’s become a tool I reach for when I’m overwhelmed, especially to help me move through big emotions.”
Meet my collaborative partner Luna who likes to join in with the Zoom meetings to offer her embodied playful leadership qualities.
The best money I’ve ever spent
“One of the most profound changes has been with my parents. Through the work I did with Inger, I’ve healed old wounds and reconnected with them in a way I never thought possible. My dad even said, “It’s the best money I’ve ever spent.” Thanks to Inger, we’ve got our relationship back, and my parents have got all us both back.”
We have the tools to handle our own reactions
“Inger’s sessions have not only helped our daughter, but they’ve helped us as parents. We’ve learned the importance of staying calm during her moments of anxiety and have been given the tools to handle our own reactions better. I recommend therapy for any parent dealing with similar issues — it’s not about ‘fixing’ the child, but about the entire family growing and learning together.”
Our house is now peaceful and I feel empowered as a parent
“Before Inger, our home was full of conflict. Louis’s mood swings were overwhelming, and I felt like I was failing as a mother. Inger’s approach helped us focus on our own reactions, and that changed everything. I’ve learned to stay calm, which helps Louis stay calm too. Our house is now peaceful, and I finally feel empowered as a parent.”