Why does my child behave worse with me? The real reason

Why does my child behave worse with me? The real reason

There is one child. You know the one. The one who picks the fight before the day has properly started. Who winds up their sibling with what can only be described as artistry. Who somehow takes 85% of your energy while the rest of family life happens somewhere in the...
Teenage Perfectionism and Anxiety: What Parents Miss

Teenage Perfectionism and Anxiety: What Parents Miss

A mum got in touch with me recently. Her daughter had just received her mock GCSE results – nine brilliant grades, and two that were slightly lower. And instead of celebrating the nine, her daughter fell apart over the two. They could barely mark the...
Window of Tolerance: Why Teen Emotions Explode

Window of Tolerance: Why Teen Emotions Explode

When your teenager shouts, slams doors, or bursts into tears, it can feel as though everything has suddenly gone wrong. But very often something else entirely is happening. Your child has simply gone outside their window of tolerance. What the Window of Tolerance...
Divided Loyalty in Teenagers After Divorce

Divided Loyalty in Teenagers After Divorce

Divorce doesn’t just split households. It can split a child in two. One part loving Mum. One part loving Dad. And a quiet, guilty voice whispering, “If I choose one, I betray the other.” That divided loyalty often shows up as aggression towards the safer parent… or...