When your teenager pushes every button

Three free videos that show you why it keeps happening and what to do about it.

You keep ending up in the same place.

You swore last time would be different. You were going to stay calm. You had a plan.

And then they said the thing – or did the thing, or looked at you in that particular way – and the plan evaporated. Out came the voice you didn’t mean to use, or the silence you didn’t mean to hold, or the words you’ll spend the next three days regretting.

It’s not that you don’t know better. It’s that knowing better doesn’t seem to stop it.

There’s a reason for that. And it has very little to do with your teenager.

Three videos · Completely free

Understand the pattern. Break the cycle. Lead the dance.

These three videos won’t tell you how to manage your teenager.

They’ll show you what’s actually going on – in you, in your history, and in your teenager’s brain.

And that changes everything.

Video One - It's not about the dishwasher.

What your teenager’s behaviour is actually asking you to do

Why the reaction that arrives when your teenager pushes your buttons has very little to do with what they just did – and what to do with that.

Video Two - You're not failing. You're repeating.

Where your reactions come from and why they are not a flaw

 
Where the loop actually comes from, why knowing better doesn’t stop it, and the one question that begins to change it.
Inger Madsen - experienced EFT practitioner and family therapist

Video Three - Hold the line, then come back.

What is happening in your teenager right now

What is genuinely happening inside your teenager’s brain – and what your role is. Including the thing that builds more trust than getting it right ever could.

This is for you if

You recognise yourself in any of these

These videos are not for perfect parents. They are for parents who are trying, who notice, who sometimes react in ways they don’t recognise, and who want to do something about it.

You lose your temper and then spend hours wishing you hadn’t

Your teenager’s mood sets the emotional weather for the whole house

You’ve heard your mother – or your father – come out of your mouth

You feel closer to the bottom of the stairs than the top

You know what you should do. You just can’t seem to do it in the moment.

You love your teenager completely and some days can barely be in the same room

Inger Madsen Family Therapy and teen anxiety support
About Inger

More than twenty years of sitting with families

I am an energy psychology therapist, speaker, and founder of the 7 Pillars of Empowered Parenting. I work with parents of teenagers – in schools, in private practice, and online – helping them understand themselves well enough to lead their families differently.

I am also a mother. I know what it’s like to feels like to react in ways you’re not proud of and say something you swore you never would. These videos come from that experience as much as from my clinical work.

  • 20+ years working with families
  • Hundreds of families supported through crisis
  • Parent Like a Leader: Raise the Future course and hundreds of workshops for parents via schools. 

Inger's approach was truly unique and it worked.

“Inger’s holistic approach was truly unique – and it really worked. We had seen several clinicians on the NHS, all of whom were so terribly patronising and just didn’t get our daughter. A big thank you from all of us.”

L.D.

Administrator, Essex

Helped me see clearly the core issues we'd been struggling with

“My WayForward Consultation with Inger was exactly what I needed. It helped me see clearly the core issues we’d been struggling with as a family – something I hadn’t quite been able to name before. That clarity alone opened up an honest conversation with my teenager.”

A.P.

Parent of 17-year-old daughter

Inger gave me a whole new perspective

“Her ability to listen deeply, combined with her intuitive understanding of my son’s problems, gave me a whole new perspective. I came away feeling hopeful and heard. She gave freely of her expertise – and I left with something I’ve been using all week to really good effect.”

Mrs L-R.

Gardener, Ashdon

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