THE NO. 1 EASIEST WAY TO MAKE YOUR FAMILY HAPPY

THE NO. 1 EASIEST WAY TO MAKE YOUR FAMILY HAPPY

In a recent blog I wrote about ‘button pushing’ in our relationship with our children and how our own unresolved childhood stuff surfaces for healing when we get triggered by our Dear Darlings. When searching for images for the blog I came across this meme: And that...
WHY IT ISN’T THE BULLYING ITSELF THAT DOES THE DAMAGE

WHY IT ISN’T THE BULLYING ITSELF THAT DOES THE DAMAGE

It is not at all uncommon for parents to be unaware that their child is being bullied. Children keep quiet about it because they don’t want to upset us, or perhaps they are worried that we will make the problem worse. If your normally placid child becomes aggressive...
WHAT HAVE BUTTONS GOT TO DO WITH THE TANGO?

WHAT HAVE BUTTONS GOT TO DO WITH THE TANGO?

I hear you! My blogs are one-sided and unfair. The answer always seems to be that you have to change when really it is your child who is the one with the problem. I get it, I truly do, and it’s hard but I also know that all families become happier when parents find a...

J.L. September 2016

“I just wanted to pass on my thanks to you as I found the workshop on Monday to be very useful.  I have found I am much more patient and am managing to maintain that patience throughout an episode my child’s of anxiety for...

B.B. July 2016  

“Dear Inger, I wanted to say a huge thank you. I had an opportunity to use the techniques you taught just the other week with my eldest son. It worked like a dream and what could have been a disastrous situation was averted. Thank you, thank you.”

S.J. October 2016

“As a result of attending your workshop I have gained knowledge which makes me a better parent, I am calmer and more equipped to deal with stressful situations by using what I learned. Frankly speaking, I am shouting a lot less and have an inch or two more patience...

 F.K. October 2017

“The most important lesson for me was that I am not only allowed, but supposed to put myself first. A happy mum stands more chance of effectively helping her stressed out child. Knowing I wasn’t alone in trying to make sense of what we were going through was a...